Negativity, Pride, and Selfishness.

Check. I’ve done all of those before, especially throughout the dark times of my losing days, and you know you have also.

Here are some of the questions you might be asking if your success is being clouded by these forces.

Why do I keep losing?

How do I stand out when there is so much competition?  

Why is it that some people seem to always have repeated success?

These are questions I’ve pondered for years before embracing the personal development journey.

There are secrets that successful people embrace fully, while others never figure it out.  I’ve applied these secrets throughout my lindy hop career over the years

And now, I want to share a few nuggets with you – that is, if you want to start winning. You do right?

Are you ready?  

These concepts are not my own, but have been utilized by some of the most successful artists and entrepreneurs in history.

A wise ruler once said, “Blessed is the one who finds wisdom, and gains understanding for the gain from her is better than gain from silver and her profit better than gold.”



Most of the time when I arrive at a lindy hop event, exhaustion has fully set into my body from the full days travel.  It’s tempting to let the physical and mental fatigue infect the most important thing that amplifies every interaction I have with people throughout the dance weekend.  

That invaluable asset is my attitude.  It is the most important asset I have to deflect the cancer of negativity in my interactions..

Many people won’t admit it, but it’s easy to be negative. It’s much more of a challenge shaping a positive attitude in the heat of the moment.

No matter what the situation, over time a positive attitude will open doors you wouldn’t believe.

I’ve learned that if a situation can be changed, what is the use in being upset. If a situation cannot be changed, what is the use in being upset.


At all cost be aware of your attitude and it’s immeasurable power to influence others. However, it is difficult to have a positive attitude when we are the only things on our minds, which leads to the next concept.

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